The lightness of heart is joyous once captured in a memory. Defining moments propel people through life in a state of wonder no matter how young or old, whatever gender, nationality, or religion. We learn and we teach.
To be misled or misguided initiates erroneous developments and that is why a proper education lifts an individual to a higher standard. To know a little is dangerous. To seek to know more completely yet know there is more to discover is to touch the hem of wisdom.
Attacks of any kind are a cry for help as I read in the Course of Miracles. It makes sense. To resort to attacks shows the lack of knowledge, and some people call it poor upbringing. Verbal attacks hurt both the sender and receiver. To know when to retreat from engagement in attacks is sensible.
Character is molded by choices made yet personality is knitted in the comfort of being. A loud, boisterous person can be as kind as a soft spoken gentle giant. Therefore, with so many unique personalities blooming characters as widely different as the number of birds created on this earth, discord is bound to happen while most prefer to glide in discovery and wonder blissfully sure all can be loved, unless hated.